JOHANNESBURG, South Africa: Digital freight forwarder Saloodo, a subsidiary of DHL Global Forwarding, the leading international provider of air, sea and road freight services, today launched its digital logistics platform for shippers and transport providers in South Africa, bringing the first digital road freight solution to the region.
The company in a Press Release, distributed, African Press Organization, APO, stated that this is the first international digital road freight platform to be launched in the continent; Providing shippers and carriers a one-stop platform for road freight connections for domestic shipments within South Africa and international movements to several neighboring countries. The company also stated that further expansion to connect shippers and carriers within Sub-Saharan Africa (SSA) is planned for early 2020.
An efficient road freight network is a key conduit of trade within a geographically wide-spread country such as South Africa but also with 16 landlocked countries within Sub-Saharan Africa (SSA). However, much of the region’s road freight operations remain fragmented and highly traditional, missing out on the visibility, efficiency, and security that logistics technology offers.
“Digital transformation is a top priority for the industry and given the demographics, we expect demand for digital transformation to be driven by emerging markets globally,” said Tobias Maier, CEO of Saloodo! The Middle East and Africa. “Africa is the world’s youngest continent with 60% of the continent below 25. This is a dynamic generation of digitally-minded young adults, demanding smart, digital solutions both on the business and home front.”
With South Africa as its launch pad into Sub-Saharan Africa, Saloodo! is the first digital logistics platform available in the region that offers a single, simple and reliable interface for shippers and transport providers to best optimize cost, routes, cargo and transit times. Backed by DHL’s global and regional footprint and expertise, all contractual relationships on the platform are organized via the existing local DHL entity, providing trust and peace of mind to carriers and shippers alike.
“With real-time visibility, Saloodo! will inject greater transparency and efficiency to the road network in the region, enabling shippers – from small enterprises and start-ups to large multinational groups – to find trusted and reliable freight carriers in South Africa. This will, in turn, help carriers manage existing fleets and optimize capacity with full truckload shipments,” Maier added.
With a market value of R 121.1 billion (~€7.5 billion) in 2018, road freight volumes in South Africa have been increasing steadily, exhibiting a growth of 5.6% in June 2019 when compared to the previous corresponding period. Equally, intra-Africa exports already accounted for 26 percent and 12 percent of South Africa’s 2018 total exports and imports respectively – almost 50% of which are with neighboring countries in this landlocked region.
The intuitive and simple-to-use platform was first launched in 2017 in Germany to connect companies and transport providers within Germany or from Germany throughout Europe. Moving swiftly into emerging markets, the digital freight service was introduced in the Middle East just six months ago where some 350 shippers are already registered. Collectively, the service has grown to more than 30,000 shippers and over 12,000 carriers covering 35 countries. During this time, the trucks managed by Saloodo! have traveled a total distance of 18 million km, which is equivalent to approximately 450 round-the-globe trips or more than 23 voyages to the moon and back.
Africa Investment Forum 2019: $67.6 billion dollars of deals tabled, $40.1 billion investor interest secured
JOHANNESBURG, South Africa: It has been a week of deals and more deals as Investors and business leaders gathered in South Africa for this year’s investment in Africa Forum, organized by the African Development Bank. It was deals that brought participants to the 2019 Africa Investment Forum and they were not disappointed. The second Forum ended on a high note Wednesday, with 56 boardroom deals valued at $67.6 billion tabled – a 44% increase from last year.
A Press Release circulated by the African Press Organization reported that fifty-two deals worth $40.1 billion secured investor interest compared with $37.8 billion dollars last year.
During the 2018 edition of the Forum, 61 transactions valued at $46.9 billion were tabled for discussions in boardroom sessions and 49 deals worth $38.7 billion, secured investment interest.
Presiding over the session: “Unveiling the Boardroom Deals”, African Development President Akinwumi Adesina said that was the spirit of the Africa Investment Forum: “transactions, transactions, transactions. Deals, deals, deals!”
Over 2,221 participants attended this year’s Forum from 109 countries, 48 from Africa and 61 from outside of Africa. They came from the government, the private sector, development finance institutions, commercial banks, and institutional investors.
”The Forum is a platform that will change Africa’s investment landscape,” Chinelo Anohu, the Forum Senior Director said. “Africa is ready to engage on its own terms.”
Key moments of the Forum included:a $600 million COCOBOD deal for Ghana, for cocoa processing, warehousing, and processing$58 million for the Alithea Identity Fund for womenA concession agreement for the Accra Sky Train, worth $2.6 billionThe Forum focused on projects and advancing deals spanning several sectors, including Energy, Infrastructure, Transport and Utilities, Industry, agriculture, ICT and Telecoms.
“Now the hard work begins to fast-track these deals to financial closure… Africa is bankable,” Adesina said.
African Development Bank Group becomes a shareholder in Africa Finance Corporation
– AfDB Invests US$50 million in AFC’s equity – AfDB becomes the second investment-grade Supranational Finance Institution to join the membership of and invest in AFC.
LAGOS, Nigeria, November: Africa Finance Corporation, AFC, a leading infrastructure solutions provider in Africa, today announced that the African Development Bank Group (“AfDB”), Africa’s highest investment-grade rated (AAA) supranational finance institution, has invested US$50 million in the equity of AFC. This was contained in a report, by the African Media Agency.
AfDB’s investment in AFC will enable both institutions to accelerate infrastructure development and delivery on the continent by deepening co-financing opportunities, joint implementation, knowledge transfer and capacity development for the benefit of Africa. The addition of AfDB as a shareholder and DFI member of AFC complements AFC’s strategy of addressing Africa’s infrastructure deficit with AfDB’s stated mission to help reduce poverty, improve living conditions for Africans and mobilize resources for the continent’s economic and social development.
The equity investment in AFC further broadens AFC’s shareholder base and follows recent equity investments in AFC from African Re-Insurance Corporation and the Republic of Ghana. As part of the equity investment, AfDB will have representation on the AFC Board of Directors.
Samaila Zubairu, President & CEO of AFC, commented on the completion of the equity investment by AfDB: “AFC welcomes AfDB as a shareholder and strategic partner, with whom we would continue our collaboration journey to address Africa’s infrastructure deficit and challenging business environment. AFC’s mandate is a strategic fit for AfDB’s objective to integrate, energize and industrialize Africa.”Dr. Akinwumi Adesina, President of AfDB also commented on the announcement: “AfDB shares AFC’s vision of developing Africa-led responses to the Continent’s socio-economic development. To date, we have already worked jointly to deliver transformational projects with tangible impact over the years.
“In becoming a shareholder, this development is, therefore, a natural evolution in our partnership, which in turn will result in delivering solutions to Africa’s infrastructure challenges at a faster pace. These solutions will adopt the highest standards, generate value to stakeholders, and foster sustainable development and economic growth across the African continent.
ABUJA, NIGERIA/ 28 OCTOBER 28, 2019/
The Centre for Economic and Leadership Development has appointed Dr. Mrs. Hannatu Adamu Fika as its new Board Chairperson for a renewable term of two (2) calendar years.
Dr. Fika is currently the Executive Secretary/CEO of the Federal Government Staff Housing Loans Board in Nigeria and a source of inspiration to women and young girls.
The formal investiture will take place on December 11th, 2019 during CELD’s 7th edition of the South America- Africa – Middle East – Asia Women Summit (SAMEAWS), at the Madinat Jumeirah, Dubai – United Arab Emirates.
In a statement, the Executive Director of CELD, Mrs. Furo Giami, said “Dr. Fika’s wealth of experience in public service, her contributions to women empowerment, her accomplishments in impacting the lives of both women and men in Nigeria’s public service through efforts to ensure that the country’s public servants own their homes, are key requirements for the Centre for Economic and Leadership Development in realizing her set objectives to bring true and enduring empowerment to women at various levels, circumstances, cultures and tribes”.
“We are confident that she will drum up the needed support for the Centre and enhance existing efforts in promoting inclusive leadership and education for women and youths in the various societies in the developing nations, particularly in Nigeria”, Mrs. Giami added.
Dr. Fika started her working career as a Civil Servant in the State Civil Service. She was recruited as an Assistant Secretary, and rose steadily to become a Director before transferring her Service to the Federal Civil Service, in 1990, as a Deputy Director. In that capacity, she worked at the Office of the Secretary to Government of the Federation, moved on to the National Commission for Women Affairs, where she became an asset in the development of Policies that gave birth to the Better Life for Rural Women in Nigeria, the pet project of Her Excellency, Mrs. Maryam Babangida, under the Military regime of the 1980s. That Programme, became the first and one of the most impactful programmes that truly mobilized Nigerian women, towards achieving improved quality of life.
She became the Director/Secretary of the Federal Government Staff Housing Loans Board, where she rose to the position of the Executive Secretary and Chief Executive Officer of the Board in 2009. She took over the leadership of a Board that was almost moribund, with a record of giving Housing Loans to only 12,556. The number of public servants who have benefited from Housing Loans have risen to over 30, 212, under her watch.
The Centre for Economic and Leadership Development (CELD), is a Nonprofit organization and the social development arm of the African Leadership magazine. The organization is in special consultative status with the United Nations Economic and Social Council (UNECOSOC); with a core mandate to bring true and enduring empowerment to women at various levels, circumstances, cultures and tribes; whilst redefining the theory and practice of inclusive leadership and education for the youth, particularly young girls in various societies.
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Abigail was a boisterous girl growing up. She was always full of life and her absence even for a few hours could be felt in the entire house. As she grew into her teenage years, she became withdrawn, unkempt and preferred her company every time of the day. She will lock herself up in her room and cry for days for justifiable reason. Her parents noticed there was a real issue, when she started posting suicidal notes on her social media handles.
Alarmed, they sought professional help and like they suspected, Abigail was diagnosed with chronic depression.
WHEN I have a bout of depression,” says Abigail, “I lack motivation for everything, not even the things I usually love to do. The only thing of interest to me is sleep. I often feel very worthless and unlovable. I nursed the feeling that everyone will be happier without me and that gave rise to suicidal thoughts’’.
“I thought about suicide every time,” recalls James, a 17 year old boy diagnosed with depression. “I didn’t really want to die, but I wanted to stop feeling the way I was feeling. I’m normally a very caring person, but cannot see past myself during bouts of depression. I become selfish, irritable and just want to be left alone, all the time.
Abigail and James were in their early teens when they first experienced depression. While other young people might occasionally feel down, Abigail and James had periods of depression that persisted for weeks or months at a time. “It’s like being stuck in a deep, dark hole with no way out,” Abigail says. “You feel like you are losing control of yourself and cannot do anything about it.
Abigail and James’s situation is not uncommon. The diagnosis of depression among the young appears to be increasing at an alarming rate, and according to the World Health Organisation(WHO) depression is “the predominant cause of illness and disability for both boys and girls aged 10 to 19 years.
“When there is life there is hope” these are words from an old cliché but no matter how true it might be; these words can never make sense to a young teen who is trapped in the arms of depression. Do you ever wonder whether your irritable or unhappy teenager might actually be experiencing teen depression? As the rate of depression rises, so does the teen suicide rate. In a recent data collated in 2013, from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), it indicated that, among students in grades 9-12 in the United States, 17 percent seriously considered attempting suicide in the previous 12 months, 13.6 percent made a plan about how they would commit suicide, 8 percent attempted suicide one or more times, and 2.7 percent made an attempt that resulted in poisoning, overdose, or an injury that required medical attention. Most times depression may come with suicide warning or signs so in order to save the life of your teenager, you must also take note of these suicide warning signs that accompany depression. They include:
- Talking about committing suicide
- Writing poems or stories about suicide
- Giving away prized possessions
- Engaging in reckless behavior
- Romanticizing death
- Saying goodbye to friends and family members (in person, in notes, or on social media)
- Cryptic social media updates that reference death or the end
These signs should propel you to raise or signal for help and intervention for your depressed teen because if ignored they can lead to fatal circumstances.
Teen depression is a serious mental health problem that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest in activities. It affects how your teenager thinks, feels and behaves, and it can cause emotional, functional and physical problems. Although depression can occur at any time in life, symptoms may be different between teens and adults.
The symptoms of depression can appear during adolescence and may include changes in sleep patterns, appetite, and weight. Feelings of despair, hopelessness, sadness, and worthlessness may also appear. Other signs include social withdrawal, trouble concentrating or remembering, suicidal thoughts or actions, and medically unexplained symptoms. When mental-health professionals suspect depression, they usually look for groups of symptoms that persist for weeks and that disrupt a person’s everyday life.
Signs and symptoms
Symptoms of teen depression include a change from the teenager’s previous attitude and behavior that can cause significant distress and problems at school or home, in social activities, or in other areas of life. Depression symptoms can vary in severity, but changes in teen’s emotions and behavior may include the examples below.
Emotional changes, such as: Feelings of sadness, which can include crying spells for no apparent reason
Frustration or feelings of anger, even over small matters.
Feeling hopeless or empty.
Irritable or annoyed mood.
Loss of interest or pleasure in usual activities.
Loss of interest in, or conflict with, family and friends.
Feelings of worthlessness or guilt.
Fixation on past failures or exaggerated self-blame or self-criticism.
Extreme sensitivity to rejection or failure, and the need for excessive reassurance.
Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering things.
Ongoing sense that life and the future are grim and bleak.
Frequent thoughts of death, dying or suicide.
Behavioral changes, such as: Tiredness and loss of energy;
Insomnia or sleeping too much;
Changes in appetite — decreased appetite and weight loss, or increased cravings for food and weight gain;
Use of alcohol or drugs;
Agitation or restlessness — for example, pacing, hand-wringing or an inability to sit still;
Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements;
Frequent complaints of unexplained body aches and headaches, which may include frequent visits to the school nurse;
Poor school performance or frequent absences from school;
Less attention to personal hygiene or appearance;
Angry outbursts, disruptive or risky behavior, or other acting-out behaviors;
Self-harm — for example, cutting, burning, or excessive piercing or tattooing;
Making a suicide plan or a suicide attempt;
Depression and Teenage Girls
The incidence of depression in teenage girls appears to be higher than that of boys. One factor may be the stress resulting from emotional, physical, or sexual harassment or abuse, which girls often have to cope with. “When a scary external world and a chaotic internal world collide,” wrote professional counselor Sharon Hersh, “the result is often overwhelming and confusing.” Girls may also be unduly influenced by media portrayals of the “ideal” body. A girl who sees herself as physically undesirable or who is overly concerned about peer approval may be more vulnerable to depression.
POSSIBLE CAUSES OF TEEN DEPRESSION
According to WHO, “depression results from a complex interaction of social, psychological and biological factors.” These may include the following.
Depression often runs in families, suggesting that genetics can play a role, perhaps affecting chemical activity in the brain. Other physical risk factors include cardiovascular disease and changing hormone levels, as well as ongoing substance abuse, which may intensify depression, if not give rise to it.
All teens experience some amount of stress, and some stress can even be healthy. Many teens, however, struggle with significant stress levels that interfere with learning, relationships, and other areas of functioning. Stress can manifest in different ways, and some symptoms of stress mimic normal teen behavior. To that end, stress can sneak up on teens. It’s important to know what to look for when it comes to teen stress:
- Emotional changes: Your teen might appear agitated, anxious, and/or depressed. Pay attention to changes in behavior.
- Physical changes: Teens under stress are likely to get sick more often and complain of headaches, stomachaches, and other aches and pains.
- Behavioral changes: Look for changes in eating or sleeping habits, and avoidance of normal daily activities.
- Cognitive changes: You might notice decreased concentration, forgetfulness, and/or the appearance of carelessness.
While a little stress can be healthy, chronic or excessive stress can be physically and psychologically harmful, sometimes to the point of plunging a susceptible, or biologically vulnerable, teen into depression. According to data collected by the American Psychological Association for the Stress in America Survey, teen stress rivals that of adults. Results of the survey show that not only do teens identify that their stress levels are not healthy, but they also underestimate the impact stress has on their mental and physical health.
Stress-related factors linked to depression may include parental divorce or separation, the death of a loved one, physical or sexual abuse, a serious accident, illness, or a learning disability—especially if a child feels rejected as a result. A related factor may be unrealistically high parental expectations, perhaps in regard to scholastic achievement. Other possible causes are bullying, uncertainty about the future, emotional estrangement by a depressed parent, and parental unpredictability.
What Parents can do.
When kids are young, parents are used to swooping in and rescuing them whenever they need help. As your kids get older and their problems become more complex, you have to transition into more of a supporting role, and that can be difficult. This is especially true with teens who are struggling with depression. They need help to get better. Recognize that depressed teens may find it hard to express their feelings or may not understand what is happening to them. They may not even be aware of the symptoms of depression.
Teens tend to express their depression in ways different from those of adults, so be alert to major changes in your child’s behavior, eating habits, moods, sleep patterns, or social interactions—especially if the changes persist for weeks.
- Cling to Psychotherapy: Depression whether in teens or adults is first a psychological problem. Talk therapy and/or cognitive behavioral therapy are often good initial treatments for mild to moderate cases of depression.
- Group therapy: Therapy groups can be effective for teens. Through group work, teens connect with other teens that share and understand their struggles and create support networks beyond their immediate families and close friends. Group therapy gives the depressed teenager an opportunity to meet peers who are in probably worst situations; thereby helping her realize she can be a source of succor to others in need.
- Medication management: Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI’s) are antidepressant medications that can be beneficial to adolescents diagnosed with major depressive disorder. An adolescent being treated for major depressive disorder should be carefully evaluated by a physician to determine whether or not medication is necessary. Although, antidepressant medications do come with risks. In 2004, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration issued a warning about SSRI medications for children and adolescent due to an increased risk of suicidal thoughts or behavior. As parents, you must be careful about the meditative measures you adopt for your depressed teenager.
Just in case you are not yet prepared to take the depression problem of your teen to others who you feel may be outsiders, there are other easy things you can do at home to help your teen. This includes
- Focusing on listening: You can’t fix this for your teen by putting up a nagging pitiful attitude, and lectures won’t make depression go away, but active and empathic listening establishes rapport and provides the required emotional support.
- Making 1:1 time a priority: The simple of act of making time to talk each day will help your teen reconnect and seek help instead of internalizing her feelings.
- Taking a Stand Against social isolation: Lack of motivation might make it difficult for your teen to connect with peers during this time. Encourage your teen to reach out to close friends and engage in activities of interest with other teens. Avoid letting her get shut out at this period.
- Creating for your teen, a Conducive environment for enough sleep: Insufficient sleep exacerbates symptoms of depression. Teens need 9-10 hours of sleep every night, hence talking about sleep with your teen can help solve depression issues.
- Prioritizing exercise: It is no news that regular exercises play a vital role in improving mental health. Aim for one hour of exercise a day with your teen. In this case it not just helpful to pose as a tutor or coach, you must also be part of the process. Offer to try new exercise classes with your teen to make it fun.
- Improve nutrition: Food definitely has its way of interrupting and determining the mood of humans. Healthy, balanced diets help to combat fatigue and feed the brain as well as boost excitements.
Fixing your young teenager’s depression and mood issues can sometimes be exasperating, nevertheless the process of overcoming depression especially in a young teenager requires patience. It might not be an easy task but being a parent requires that you persevere and gradually follow through the process, since the joy of that young teenager also assures you of yours.
How Friends Can Help
The isolating feeling of depression can make it hard for some adolescents to ask for help. They may be willing to speak to their friends about their depression instead of their parents or caregivers. For teens who want to support their friends who have depression or other mental health conditions, the following recommendations can help;
- Avoid saying things like “you’ll get over it,” “toughen up” or “you’re fine”
- Tell your friend that having a mental health condition does not change the way you feel about them
- Your friend may feel alone; check in regularly and include your friend in your plans
- Learn more about mental health conditions
- Encourage your friend it gets better; help and support are available
- Reach out to a trusted adult (parent, teacher, coach, religious leaders) and share with them your concerns for your friend.
How Depressed Teens Can Help Themselves
If you suffer from depression, a practical suggestion to help you control your thoughts and feelings is to create what has been called an emotional first-aid kit. The kit, which can be adjusted as you see fit, might include;
- Contact information of people to call when you feel down
- Favorite songs that are positive and up-building
- Inspirational sayings and encouraging articles
- A list of comforting and up-building sayings from the Holy Scriptures
- Mementos to remind you of people who love you
- A journal containing your positive thoughts as well as positive experiences you have enjoyed.
Always remember that you are not alone and depressed feelings, as daunting as they may seem, can pass away.
I have gone out on social occasions alone long enough to know that a woman, who goes about her life solo, is its own kind of oppression. I have always enjoyed my own company and want to be by myself the majority of the time. This of course is not to say I don’t enjoy the company of others. I have great companions from my place of worship, work, etc., but will always have picked my own company if it was presented on a scale of preference.
It was one of those hectic days at work. I had resumed before 8.am and barely had ten minutes break the whole day. I was on my feet half of the time and my toe hurt badly from pressure from the heels. I had to deal with a lot of finicky clients and could literally feel the temporomandibular joint (TMJ) symptoms coming down.
Swamped as I was, pleasant thoughts of my planned evening made me smile to myself from time to time. Okay, one of my resolutions for the New Year was to always give myself a treat, at least once in 2 weeks. See a movie, have a drink by self or attend a concert.
This particular Friday was my first planned outing for the year. My neighbor had been going on and on about the spiced snails in a particular joint in town. “It is to die for ‘’ she had said as her face lit and then suddenly turned solemn like she was literally ready to give her life for those snails. The snail was not the only reason to visit this joint, the life band was classic, I learned my folk songs were a regular and since I was away from home, I longed for things that give me the home nostalgia.
As the clock chimed and it was 6; pm, I heaved and started to clear my desk. I was going to have a wonderful ‘’me time’’ and could not just wait to have my evening.
The traffic was not particularly heavy this evening, and in less than 30 minutes I had reached my destination joint. The car park was jam -parked and I had to wait for about ten minutes for someone to pull out so I could park. I smiled and waved at the astonished driver who could not understand what my excitement was about. It seemed as if the space was for sale and I had just been given one for free.
I securely locked my laptop and other personals in the car booth and with a leisurely stroll, went into the garden.
There was a security screening point with some huge agelastic looking security guards. Good evening, I greeted trying a quick smile out of curiosity to know if those faces could ever smile. The face position seemed sculptured, like it will never bulge. Hi, one of them responded, while searching my bag like I had a bomb the size of a mustard grain hidden therein. Who are you with; he continued without even looking at me, still fixated on the contents of my bag, looking at every bit of make-up item like it had some bomb laced on it.
I honestly did not understand the question, I looked around and when I did not see anyone else around he could have been referring to, responded ‘’ I am by myself’’.
Sorry we do not admit unaccompanied ladies here, he retorted, stretching back my handbag to me with a look of “you just wasted my time with the search.’’
The first retort that came to heart was not a pleasant one. Always count to five in your mind before you respond my dad has always advised. 1, .2, 3,……4………5, Why? I asked instead?
This place is not a brothel, we don’t want young ladies like you coming here unaccompanied to attract men, you have to come with your husband or boyfriend to gain entrance here.
Patience is a virtue, I agreed that day. Count again, I said to myself. 1..2…,3….4……,5…….but I am single, I responded calmly. I neither have a husband nor boyfriend to escort me, but seriously need to unwind and calm my nerves, I’ve had a long day, I said, almost pleading.
Young lady, leave this place, another guard shouted from behind. Do not make us throw you out.
I was getting angry, my voice was not so calm again, throw me out? What will be my offence? I asked with sincere surprise?
I did not see his response coming, your offense is being ‘’Mrs Nobody’’.
There are days when I could have had my way or disrupt business activities there for the rest of the evening. That particular Friday was not one of such days. I was sapped of all energy. I collected my bag and walked back to my car with a thousand thoughts flowing through my mind.
I will be back, I told myself, I will still come back here alone and will gain entrance, have my drink and peppered snail, watch entertainers perform my folk songs, and unwind before going home.
Not just today.
As I got home and discussed this incident with my friends, I realized it wasn’t new and not just the place in question was guilty of this harassment to unaccompanied ladies. I was rudely surprised and decided to look up ‘my rights’’ pertaining to this issue. Guess what I found? Nothing.
But in the course of my reading, I discovered I was not alone.
A lot of young women have faced this kind of harassment and have suffered discrimination based on their relationship status.
According to an article found on Arab News; the Commission for the Promotion of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice (Haia) has officially prevented women from visiting medical clinics without male guardians. Haia members recently issued orders to employees working at a nutrition center not to admit women patients unless a guardian accompanies them during their weekly visits. This decision caused huge losses to the nutrition center in a single week, according to the source.
In defense of their stance, the proponents of the law stated that male guardians or company must not only be husbands, but could also be any male relative like , sons, brothers, fathers or even uncles. Hmmm, how thoughtful.
What this means is that, I have to wait for my elderly father or my brothers who all live 10 hours away from me to get checked medically or like was the case with me, hire a male or call an unwanted male friend to accompany me before I could relax, unwind and spend my own money.
I tried a different venue the following day and was admitted (Thankfully), but I had to wait for about 10 minutes and when I did not see any waiter coming my way, I beckoned on one and placed my order. Just one? He asked with a sincerely curious voice. How do you mean I asked back, curious to see where the drama was leading? Ermmm, I thought you will want to order for ‘’Oga” (Male partner) at once so I do not have to go back and forth when he comes. Hmmmm, there is no “Oga’’ I responded, please can you get my order? Sorry ma he murmured as he jolted away.
I could see people looking at me with condescending pity because I was unaccompanied. Paradoxically, I look at them and feel pity too that they needed to have company in order to enjoy themselves. Why would I want to pay for my much hyped “Spiced Snail’’ or get to pay for a movie ticket if I have to try to hold up a forced conversation that distracts me from savoring the reason I’m there?
I have been alone in public places long enough to note the different treatment I am given when I am with “someone and when I’m not.
These are the small matters.
How about the bigger stuff like strange men trying to have forced conversations with you and getting really rude when you show no interest or strange men following you when you depart ? It gets harder.
Being a woman who goes about her life ‘’ solo’’ is its own kind of oppression.
Why are women expected to be accompanied in spaces where social activity occurs?
This has so become the norm that, when you are not accompanied, even kind , well-meaning people find it hard to address you respectfully.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
Who else have had bad treatment in a social event for being a “Mrs Nobody”?
What should be done about this? Are there legal rights or bodies for complaints in cases of such harassment?
Thoughts and opinions are welcomed.
Amazons Watch magazine wishes women across the world, a wonderful celebration, on the annual International Women’s Day.
As a magazine with a media philosophy rooted in the preservation of the pride and dignity of women, we acknowledge the social, economic, cultural and political achievements and contributions of Women across nations, and as we join in this 2018 International Women’s Day celebration, we encourage all women and girl’s across the globe to be reminded, that the annual March 8th date is set aside to celebrate not only the achievements of Women in their fight for equality, but the willingness to ‘PressForProgress’; and to be encouraged that while they fight many social battles, the change we seek always just starts with you.
To our Amazons, we salute your doggedness and the fact that your daily breakthroughs is an inspiration to all women.
To women who still face one violence or the other, we salute your resilience and audacity of hope…..remember there is always light at the end of the tunnel.
We celebrate you all today.
Remember to show love to the underprivileged as we celebrate Women today.
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HE Sheikha Lubna bint Khalid bin Sultan Al-Qasimi is a member of the ruling family of Sharjah and the niece to His Highness, Dr. Sheikh Sultan bin Muhammed Al-Qasimi.
She is the first woman to hold a ministerial post in the United Arab Emirates, respectively holding the positions of Minister of State for International Cooperation and Development, Minister of Foreign Trade, and Minister of Economic and Planning of the United Arab Emirates (UAE). HE Sheikha Lubna currently holds the position of Minister of State for Tolerance.
She received her Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science from the California State University and acquired an Executive MBA from the American University of Sharjah. In March 2014, HE Sheikha Lubna received an honorary doctorate of science, from California State University, Chico; she also has an honorary doctorate in law and economics from the University of Exeter and the Hankuk University of Foreign Studies respectively.
While serving as the Minister of Foreign Trade, she had received commendations with her background in IT for developing a system that slashed the cargo turnaround times at the Dubai airport and also creating the first ever business-to-business online marketplace in the Middle East.
Besides from fulfilling her roles as a Minister, HE Sheikha Lubna bint Khalid bin Sultan Al-Qasimi also sits on the Board of various organizations, offering her knowledge when needed.
As a Minister of State for Tolerance, she is working towards creating and building a platform where there is a generally accepted and diversified living condition in the United Arab Emirates.
Some of her Awards and recognition include Datamatix IT Woman of the Year 2001; Commonwealth of Kentucky Honorary title — Kentucky Colonel, 2003; Business. Com Personal Contribution Award, 200,1 among others.